'Any time you bring a new environment into your sex life, it can feel sexy and adventurous,' says Finn. Here's the thing: While IRL shower sex tends to fall short (just me?), Lisa Finn, a sex educator at sex toy emporium Babeland says it can be awesome. Whether it's Dear John, Fifty Shades Darker, or Queer As Folk, you probably remember one shower sex scene that convinced you that shower sex would be hot to try yourself.